{"id":1503,"date":"2019-09-03T13:35:50","date_gmt":"2019-09-03T13:35:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/antpants.com\/?p=1503"},"modified":"2019-09-03T14:19:50","modified_gmt":"2019-09-03T14:19:50","slug":"food-for-thought-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/antpants.com\/?p=1503","title":{"rendered":"Food for thought&#8230;  :)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Do you find yourself being mean, angry, disrespectful, and just plain hateful to others a lot of the time?\u00a0 Could it be because there is something going on in your mind, a memory of the past,\u00a0 memory of how you were put upon badly, abused, treated mean, angry, disrespectful and hated? Could it be that you treat others this way because you haven&#8217;t made peace with your monsters from the past?\u00a0 Could it be that you are still in pain about your past and you make it your mission in life to see to it that you can find anyone to put that same hurt, pain, heartbreak and disappointment on?\u00a0 Ya think?\u00a0\u00a0 Friends, let me say this.\u00a0 We all have these same skeletons in our closet to some extent.\u00a0 If we are lucky we learn to make peace with the past and not let it ruin our future.\u00a0 Being angry, disrespectful, mean and hateful is not only a bad to turn you into the same monsters and memories you are running away from, it is also no way to live.\u00a0 Life is meant to be happy, enjoyable and fulfilling.\u00a0 And Life is short.\u00a0 The memory hurt and betrayals of the past may never be something you can forgive or forget, but it surely can be packed away and &#8220;accidentally&#8221; lost in the move.\u00a0 You can stop and count to 10 before you lose yourself to the past and take it out on others.\u00a0 You are better than this and deserve a good life.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t let the past ruin your future.\u00a0 Live to be happy fulfilled and get all the enjoyment out of your short time on this earth as you can.\u00a0 Let go of the bad and let the good move in to your heart.\u00a0 I am sure there is PLENTY of room in there!<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"385\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/antpants.com\/?attachment_id=385\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/antpants.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Valentine-Irving-2016.jpg?fit=154%2C146&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"154,146\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Valentine Irving 2016\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/antpants.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Valentine-Irving-2016.jpg?fit=154%2C146&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/antpants.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Valentine-Irving-2016.jpg?fit=154%2C146&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-full wp-image-385 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/antpants.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Valentine-Irving-2016.jpg?resize=154%2C146\" alt=\"\" width=\"154\" height=\"146\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you find yourself being mean, angry, disrespectful, and just plain hateful to others a lot of the time?\u00a0 Could it be because there is something going on in your mind, a memory of the past,\u00a0 memory of how you were put upon badly, abused, treated mean, angry, disrespectful and hated? 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